Sigh
I’m feeling kind of down tonight. I don’t want to go into all sorts of gruesome detail, but it boils down to the bad, scary money problems and the fact that, right now, today, my Dad has lost his focus. I’m hoping it’s just a temporary thing because he’s feeling overwhelmed (as are we all), but I’m so used to seeing him on top of things. Seeing him scattered and worried is NOT a reassuring thing. Most days, my inborn optimism pops out over the top of this and lets me focus on things getting better, but today isn’t one of those days. Having Dad’s retirement pretty much disappear a few years ago has not been a helpful thing, you know? Nor is having two mortgages on the house. As in, about the only income right now is mine (relatively paltry) and Social Security which are nowhere near enough to meet the bills, and my savings isn’t going to last forever.
But it’s seeing Dad floundering that has me most worried–not so much because of the finances but because it’s making me worry about HIM. And Mom, who mirrors the mental state of pretty much everyone around her. And this kind of stress is not good for my parents! They’re getting older, and they don’t bounce back from this kind of think like they did when they were younger, and it’s just so not fair that the economy tanked and did this to them. There were some bad decisions in there, too, but basically, if the economy hadn’t started to collapse around 2001, things would be better, and I hate seeing this happen to my parents. Stress like this is NOT healthy. (For me, either, of course, but I’m younger, right?)
Like I said, it’s capital-S-Scary, and this is more information than I usually put out there, but tonight I feel like sharing.
Thank heaven for my Happy Chappy who continually spread smiles around.
And I’m sure my mood will be better tomorrow.
And did I mention that I upgraded my Cafe Press shop? Technically, I have two–the original, free-but-limited shop, and the new, upgraded shop that allows more than one of each kind of product.
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I’m so sorry. The worry is spreading, which doesn’t help you or your family one bit. You all are in my prayers.
*hugs all around*
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I am so sorry. I’m sending good thoughts your way. It is so difficult to deal with $$ issues and the resulting stress. You put up all the ads you need! The more ads the merrier.
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I’ll be thinking good thoughts for you. Good luck with the money stuff. It’s very stressful to be sure.
That would be stressful. We are trying to get property and (or find something perfect…right, lol) buy or build but kind of need to either sell the place we are in first or have 2 mortgages for awhile. My mom retires in 2 years and the only way we see her moving near us and surviving is in a mother in law home. In 2 years my daughter will also be having to actually pay for her college tuition…..investments have messed with so many peoples retirements and savings, it is really sad to see so many people struggling. We can’t complain ourselves as we do have an affordable roof over our heads, etc but it is incredibly frustrating to be stuck , in limbo. My thoughts are with you! sending good “green” vibes!
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Good luck. Your family is in my prayers.
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Sorry to hear of your money problems. Have you looked into monetizing your blog more? It could help get a stream of money in - every little bit helps.
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I’m sorry to hear about your money worries! It’s scary when you see it affecting your family.
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I’m sorry it feels like dark clouds are gathering. Sending positive thoughts to you and yours!
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